Much like a car can only go so far on a tank of gas, research suggests that willpower and motivation—the fuel that powers your drive to lose weight, get back in shape, or otherwise stay out of trouble—is a limited resource. You start each day with only so much. It can be squandered quickly or, if you learn a few tricks, it can be conserved and even refreshed.
“Willpower may be finite for the day, but it’s a self-perpetuating renewable resource,” says Susan Rose, a Los Angeles productivity coach.
6:00 a.m. Do NOT hit the snooze button
When you buy yourself an extra 10 minutes, you’re setting a precedent for the day—that any goal can be compromised. “As soon as you hit snooze, you’re renegotiating a commitment with yourself,” says Natalie Houston, a personal productivity coach. So don’t do it. Alarm goes off. You get up.
6:20 a.m. Do 10 push-ups
When it comes to motivation, your brain is wired a bit backwards. It prioritizes avoiding defeat over achieving success. Committing to starting the day with exercise turns that thinking around. By leading off with a workout – however brief – you’re adjusting your mind to view inaction as defeat.
“There’s tons of research on loss aversion, but the gist of it is pretty simple,” explains Kyle Kirchhoff, co-founder of Spar, a mobile app that builds healthy habits by debiting bank accounts for missed challenges. “Losing sucks, and people will work hard to avoid it.”
7:00 a.m. Make a 12-hour promise
Building willpower doesn’t just help with building abs. It can be used to improve relationships, too, says Paul Hokemeyer, Ph.D., a relationship and family therapist in Telluride, CO. Say your partner is always complaining she’s under-appreciated. So instead of making some vague commitment to tell her she is, set a specific 12-hour period to do so. Kiss her goodbye, text her during the day, and take her out for dinner at night.
8:30 a.m. Decide to act on one thing
Stop rehearsing your argument for a promotion/raise in the shower or during your commute to work and make this the day you finally ask for one. Visualization is a powerful tool, but doing it for too long how long is too long? without taking action can sabotage your goals.
“Research shows that the more people fantasize and daydream about a desired future, the less successful they are [at realizing it],” says Gabriele Oettingen, Ph.D., professor of psychology at New York University. Visualization takes energy, which over time can actually sap your willpower to act on your dreams.
6:30 p.m. ‘Pre-order’ drinks and meals
Instead of waiting until you arrive at the brewpub after work and risking making a poor choice, “pre-order” mentally on the drive over. For example, if your goal is to reduce calories from alcohol, tell yourself, “I will order a lighter session beer instead of my usual imperial IPA.” Likewise, pre-commit to getting the chicken romaine salad instead of the chicken fried steak.
“Things that are normally hard to deal with can become surprisingly easy if you automate the decision-making through pre-programming,” says Martin Ford Ph.D., a professor of education at George Mason University, who specializes in motivation and self-regulation.
9:30 p.m. Dress yourself before bed
Lay out your clothes for the next day the night before. Even better, pre-prep your breakfast and lunch, too.
“Remove uncertainty about what you might do,” suggests Ford. Decision-making saps willpower, and the longer you spend agonizing about a decision—even a seemingly inconsequential one—the more you wear down those stores. Bonus: You’ll cut your risk of walking into work with mismatched socks and a box of cereal.
9:45 p.m. Congratulate yourself on 3 things
At the end of the day, most guys beat themselves up over their failures. You skipped a workout. You splurged at lunch. Instead, try acknowledging those times when you had the willpower to resist temptation, however small.
It’s a simple trick for staying positive, maintaining momentum, and getting off to a strong start the following day.“The brain has a natural bias to pay more attention to the negative or painful, because it wants to protect you from those things,” says Houston. “Focusing on three successes at the end of the day primes your brain for achieving success again.”
10:00 p.m. Go to bed
The advice to get 8 hours of sleep nightly is so ubiquitous it’s actually sleep inducing. But that’s because there’s lots of great research supporting it. For example, you’re more likely to make regrettable food choices after a night of abbreviated sleep.
A recent study in the journal Sleep found that, like the active ingredient in marijuana, sleep loss raises the body’s endocannabinoid levels, so you wake up with the equivalent of the munchies. As anyone who went to a liberal arts college knows, you lose that battle nine times out of 10.